My mom must have named me after Edgar Allan Poe. I really wanted to be a writer once, but in the late 60’s Journalism (MassComm hasn’t been coined at the time) was not yet offered in Davao City. You have to go to Cebu City at least for that, and back then that could even be considered a luxury for someone from Davao like me. So dreams shifted, and I enrolled in Political Science at the Ateneo.
But life has yet other plans, and I didn’t get to be a lawyer - some of my classmates did. Yet I never considered myself a failure. I maneuvered through life, more a product of the school of hard knocks. Looking back at it, I could sum it up that I had a good youth. I have seen and and done the things young men at the time do. I have enjoyed life; seen its beauty and its ugliness. I have sown my wild oats; and I have gone over the regrets those things have brought me. I am enriched by my experiences - from all my triumphs and failures. I licked my wounds and fought on, and came the better for it. I have healed and met life head on.
Fast forward to the eighties, and I met the woman of my life - my soul mate. I was already 33 when I got married and I am thankful I waited that long for that special person who would share my life as I would share hers. We had a daughter three years later. And though it turned out that she is the only one we could have, I could say that I am complete.
See? Don’t fret over your lost dreams because fulfillment is always out there. They may not be the things you planned or dreamed of, but you are not destined to grouch at life all through your existence because you don’t have all those fancy letters after your surname. You may lack the trappings this materialistic world considered important, but real happiness lies inside you. The trappings that should really matter are your strength, perseverance and faith in God.
Simple things. Simple lang!